Lu He once tried to get close to Nan Lian. He was cowardly and helpless and could only hold on to the thin rope in his hand. At the other end of the rope was Lu He's hand that he gave up on his own initiative.
So much so that after Nan Qian was reborn from nirvana, the first thing he did was to hurt her.
Lu He knew he was wrong, but it was too late by then.
Intention: Kindness is a way out