I discovered something very strange:
When I fall but it doesn't hurt, adults will make a fuss and yell as if it hurts;
When I fell and it hurt so much that I wanted to cry, they lied to me and said "it doesn't hurt" and tried every possible means to prevent me from crying.
It's really strange. I know whether it hurts or not. It's also my own business to cry or not. Adults always say "you have to do your own thing." Why do they make the opposite decision for me?
Intention: Please do not use the name of "for your own good" as a way of "controlling you". The foundation of love is respect.