They regard "being chosen" as the highest reward for women, and regard rejection as a kind of arrogance that needs to be punished.
But perhaps, there are also people who respect the boundaries of others and do not regard "being chosen" as a standard for success.
Xu Lingwei and Xia Yu are both the latter.
When she was 28 years old, she left the north and came to Nancheng alone, without planning where to go next.
Nor did she ever think about reconnecting with someone she had known since she was eighteen but had never really been close to in all these long years.
Do different snowflakes fall at the same speed in the same language?
18-Year-old Xu Lingwei's answer to this is no, while 28-year-old Xu Lingwei has a different answer. They will fall in the same expanse at different speeds.
Later, Xia Yu said to her: "You keep moving forward without being disturbed by anyone, anything, or anything, and I am just an insignificant place where you have wandered."
But what Xu Lingwei didn't know was that she only needed to turn her head slightly to see the person who had been by her side. I know you may not come, but I still sweep the flowers in the courtyard.
This is a story about ordinary people. There is no counterattack, no reversal, and no love that has to be you. Only one slowly learns to observe another life and find one's place in it.
But what she really learned was far more than that. Don't be fooled by rhetorical labels, don't waver in your own standards based on other people's standards, and don't change your answers based on other people's expectations.
The life of ordinary people is also beautiful. A life of eating well is also very precious.
Then, every plant and tree blooms in summer.
Purpose: Female growth