This book only expresses the author's own life insights, and is intended to leave a record for himself and his children. The starting point is to solve a life problem-a few years later, when my children ask me: "Mom, why don't you get a divorce?" I wanted to ask my mother countless times when I was a teenager. Since I suffered so many grievances, so many dissatisfactions, and so many complaints with my father, why didn't I get a divorce earlier? I even wrote in my diary at that time: "I would rather you divorce early for yourself, no matter how much I suffer, that's my life; I don't want you to keep telling others that it's all because of me, so you can endure it until now." In the end, this question was not asked. As I grew up, got married, and gave birth to my own child, I slowly understood part of her helplessness and understood her choice. But so far, I still can't let go of the pain I have experienced, so getting along with her has been very awkward. A lot of bad things have indeed happened recently, so a picture of my child asking me this question a few years later suddenly came to my mind. How should I explain it? When I talk about it, I feel like there are so many things and I don't know where to start, so I decided to leave this book as a record of the process.
I would like to express my deep gratitude to my close friend May for giving me the title of the book. It is very suitable. It is much better than what I thought. Otherwise, this book would be called "Last Words to My Daughter", which would have too much sadness. I love you, May.
Warning: This book is only the author's personal experience, and there will be a lot of personal nonsense. Readers, please don't be too picky. Accept comments and suggestions, but you will not change your mind. I am the master of my life. You are also welcome to discuss topics such as marriage and relationships with me in the comment area.
Intention: Feeling, understanding and self-growth