Of these two men, one thinks of himself as a donkey, as if he should be in trouble for love if he recognizes himself, and the other thinks of himself as a carrot in front of the donkey, so that you can't eat it. Who is being tortured? What the person involved says, what outsiders think, life has to go on as usual.
It's so short that I'm not sure if I want to expand it into a full-length article…
It depends. Above