There is a kind of literature called "Flower of the Mountain", which creates an unattainable character and then drags it down from the altar to savor the humiliation.
"She despised instinct as vulgarity."
"She has a top-notch family background and appearance."
"She is so self-disciplined that she never shows her emotions. She is like an ice sculpture that is carefully crafted but cannot be approached."
"She responded to the admiration and pursuit of others with polite indifference."
Then... Her family went bankrupt.
Purpose: love and freedom