Most people in this world are envious. Those who are born well call for silver spoons, hoping and imagining that the same is true for themselves. But rich people also have worries about life and death, and poor people also have joys and sorrows. All living beings are no different. As Hayek said, "If in the long run we are the creators of our own destiny, then in the short run we are prisoners of the ideas or thoughts we create. Only by recognizing this danger in time can we hope to avoid it." "Shang Shu" is very simple, it brings blessings and disasters. All things are of your own making, including blessings and disasters.
Purpose: Love that goes against common sense and worldliness, if it is not taken into consideration for procreation, is actually more pure than the "right way".