Judging whether a candle is extinguished now does not depend on whether the flame is bright or burning continuously, but whether it has illuminated a dark place in the past.
If so, it can be regarded as eternal.
He Zengming has a sticky note.
The first line is with Xu Jinzhu.
The second line is to be together with Xu Jinzhu all his life.
The third line is to become the Jade Emperor and be with Xu Jinzhu forever.
I give you a rose every day with I love you engraved on it.
Since then, the roses in the vase have never withered.
Intention: love you
