Is this the tragedy of older women in the workplace? ??
If you are not married, people are afraid that you will get married.
If you are married, people are afraid that you will have children.
Those who have children are also asked how old their children are and whether they are considering having a second child.
If you don't get married or have children, you will suffer inexplicable moral condemnation and discrimination from society.
Your parents, your seven aunts and eight aunts will also urge you and advise you not to be an alien...
Intention: Want to make a choice