This article was first written in March 2010. It is about friendship, love, past lives and the next life.
I don't know if all authors have a projection mentality when writing articles, projecting some of their own thoughts, experiences, and even expectations onto the male and female protagonists.
I am like this. So in the relationship between three or more people, there are my experiences, my thoughts and my expectations.
I came across a passage by chance: If you hope that a love relationship will bring you happiness, it is unequivocal that you will be disappointed. You may get temporary satisfaction, joy, vanity, security, some kind of guarantee, but these are not love. Distinguishing this requires more introspection, acrimony towards oneself and others. I often hear people express their feelings, but what they say is nothing more than their needs, their intentions, and their sadness and anger when others cannot meet their needs. If you are unhappy and full of contradictions and shortcomings, love relationships can only make you more fully aware of this and bring more contradictions and shortcomings.
Whether it's Ji Qingxiao, Shen Yelin, or Yu Yingying, everyone's view of love is flawed. If you blindly think about using love to make up for the shortcomings of love, you will only go to extremes. This is also my hope for myself. After all, love is not the only thing in life, and there are many things in life that are far more important and beautiful than love.
Fortunately, I don't have any other advantages. The only one is that I am forgetful. It seems that I have completely forgotten what the sadness was for when I started writing the article.