Back to My Mother's 1979

Hequ has only one wish, which is to let her mother live a good life, but things don't work out and Hequ's mother, Wenchi, is terminally ill. If she could go back to her mother's time, Hequ would only have one wish, which would be to get her mother away from her scumbag father and let Wen Chi go to school properly. Now this opportunity was presented to Hequ. She actually traveled back to Wenchi's girlhood and became Lin Yueyin, Wenchi's neighbor's daughter. He Qu is determined to become best friends with Wen Chi, who is still a girl, and to be a mother's girl, so that Wen Chi can go to high school, go to college, successfully get rid of her scumbag father, and reach the pinnacle of life! Back in the late 1970s, I not only wanted my mother to resume her life and avoid the huge crater in her life - Hequ's scumbag father, but also to fulfill her mother's wish. —— I wonder if children all over the world have thought about this question, am I a drag on my mother? Would life be better without my mother? Hequ thought about it and had his own answer. Yes, she is her mother's drag, and Wenchi's life would be better without her. "Dear mother, returning to your time may be the greatest gift I can give you, so that your life will be more smooth and less bumpy in the future." —— He Qu, who had just traveled through time, hugged his teenage mother and cried, "Mom!" Wen Chi, who was still a young girl, touched the unfortunate child's head and thought silently, this girl must have broken her head... Concept: Before becoming a mother, every mother was once a girl, someone's baby daughter. But after becoming mothers, they always put their mother, wife, daughter first, and finally themselves. In the process of becoming a mother, the mother's own personality seems to be erased. If my mother was given a chance to choose again, would she choose a life without "me"? "I" will never know my mother's answer, but "I" hope that my mother will choose a life without me, a life without drag, and have a happier life. Problems in the original family may take a lifetime to heal. Whether it is the mother or the father, they will have a great impact on the child. The parent-child relationship may even be a lifelong proposition. The relationship with the mother is always as close as the umbilical cord. The relationship with the father is often established from the day after tomorrow. The relationship with the mother, the influence brought by the father, plus the ego, combine to form each individual. Therefore, this article will be divided into three volumes. The main line of Volume One is the relationship with the mother, the main line of Volume Two is getting rid of the influence of the father, and the main line of Volume Three is "I". Perhaps reconciliation with the family can allow "me" to become truly independent and complete. Reconciliation does not necessarily mean forgiveness and understanding, it can also mean letting go. Reconciliation with family is not necessarily reconciliation with every family member, it can also be the indifference after Qianfan's death. I wanted to write a story that healed a family relationship that might exist.