There are seven sufferings in life: birth, old age, illness and death, separation from love, meeting with resentment and hatred, and not being able to seek what we want. We spend our lives pursuing what we cannot seek.
In "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai", Ma Wencai couldn't get what he wanted and spent his life in sadness. His lifelong unrepentant love for Zhu Yingtai gave him a painful blow and became the shame of his life.
In "Why Shengxiao is Silent", Ying Hui's request for Zhao Mosheng is not met...
Intention: Change your perspective and discover that asking for something but not getting it is not necessarily a good thing.