On that day, I had three matchmakers and six betrothals, and I was in red makeup for ten miles. I told my father that I have admired you for a long time. If I come here one day, I will love you wholeheartedly and be a couple for the rest of my life, so that I will not be disturbed by the world. Although Yu Dang'er was a prince, he was elegant and unrestrained, and did not compete for court, so he agreed to this marriage. Thinking about what he said today, it turns out that "not being disturbed by the worldly world" meant that I would not suffer the pain of not having enough food to eat, but instead I had to suffer the whole family being imprisoned, and the pain of losing my father and brother!
The intention is to think that it is achieved when it is not achieved, and to think that it is consistent when it is not coherent. How can you have a clear mind? It's a disease of the heart!