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The starting point of this article may be that we clearly know that this relationship will not continue.
It just so happened that I was currently in my graduation season, and suddenly felt this way. But I didn't fall in love first, and then I felt that the distance would be tiring. Although the two people in the article are still in love, I actually don't understand why it ended without any problem. After all, Matsuda and Meibao are such good people. I think they have the courage to sacrifice for the people they love. Meibao can get married and have children for her parents, but can't have a long-distance relationship for Matsuda, which makes me a little confused. After all, going to Japan is not complicated, and having a long-distance relationship in a foreign country is about the same difficulty as a long-distance relationship between the North and the South.
But thinking about it later, it was just because I thought this was the second dimension. I subconsciously thought that there was no pressure like the third dimension, parents' urging and lack of understanding of marriage, and strange looks from colleagues. It's just that these things don't exist in the second dimension. That's why I felt that the separation between the two people was very abrupt.
So if you don't understand this article, maybe it's a good thing. It at least means you haven't been crushed by the pressure of reality.
I hope everyone can love and hate as they please, and thank the author again for his output. Very tasty knife that makes me spin left and right
This ending is actually very idealistic. In fact, the heroine will only have a harder time than in the article. In reality, the pressure of her parents, the criticism of secular morality, and her husband's self-esteem will only make the heroine fall deeper into hell.
I never expected that the most fortunate thing after reading it would be that I made a firm choice to remain unmarried and have no children and received support from my whole family. While crying, I once again strengthened my resolve to remain unmarried and have no children.
It's so sad. For my parents to go against my wishes and face a future I don't want. I should never go down this road. It's too painful to think about it. It's too painful.
Why. I suddenly felt sour and angry. Why do you have to get your children married and have children for your own peace of mind? Why should you lose your life just for their peace of mind? Although this is very realistic. But I still couldn't control my reason - I felt sad, so sad. In other words, I always feel that maybe I will follow in this footsteps in the future and become a member of the secular mainstream. I'm so scared
It's so sad. In reality, there are always so many alternatives. There are always some things that cannot be done both ways. After making a choice, no matter how sad or regretful you are, you can only go on. The joys, sorrows, love and hate in the two-dimensional world are so grand, and darkness and light conflict and struggle fiercely. In the third dimension, people may have tried their best just to maintain the status quo of life, and are trapped by trivial and fragmented pressure. The future is unknown. Life can be seen at a glance, step by step, and follow the rules, and there is no room for too much romance and ideals. All the characters I like are my hopes and fantasies, my unattainable extravagances. Determined and passionate, brave and sincere, he rushed to the grand fireworks on the Ferris wheel and was willing to face death for the public benefit.
Sure enough it was still uncomfortable. . . The article is written here, but there will be a long, long time after this. And for the rest of my life, when time passes, years settle, and across a long distance, we can only be treated as friends, and there is no reason to be closer to each other. How do you go through the countless days and nights in the life of two words? How can you suppress the overflowing thoughts and stop thinking about the person who gave you all the respect and love you hoped for? How can you pretend that you no longer miss him and talk about the other person and the past as if nothing happened.
Suddenly I thought of this sentence, "Afraid of being asked, swallow your tears and pretend to be happy."
From now on, you will have completely different lives with no intersection, and he will be a passer-by and an outsider after all.
God... I really feel it. It's entirely because of your parents that you choose to marry someone you don't love. You say you have to ruthlessly follow your own wishes, but it's actually very difficult to think about your parents. The relationship between Chinese people and their parents is really awkward. It's impossible to say that you don't care at all. The last sentence of the episode is really heartbreaking. Watching him disappear from your life like this... Intersect and then separate.
Woohoo, it's so uncomfortable. I got up in the middle of the night and wiped my tears. (I feel so sorry for the heroine-chan and Jinpei. The two people who love each other can't be together in the end. Woohoo, I cried so hard that my nose had bubbles popping out.
The ending is too realistic for a novel, but not too bad for reality. You won't meet such a stunning Matsuda, and you may not be lucky enough to meet a "sir" who is compatible with you, but you will definitely meet parents who will not be alone regardless of your wishes in order to give you support for the rest of your life. Fathers who know you don't want to but will still desperately urge you to get married. Mother, "When will you grow up?", "I will feel at ease when you get married", "If we don't get married now, what will you do when we get old?", "My biggest wish now is to see you get married"... The author writes very well, so I don't have the courage to read this article a second time.
It's hard to describe my mood because I'm probably in the same situation as the heroine except for being in love. . Studying in a foreign country, I want to stay outside and see the wider world, but I can never do this because of my feelings for my parents. I once vowed to make my own achievements, but in the end I chose to accept mediocrity near the end of the story and began to prepare for the step-by-step steps that should be taken in life. Compared with the utopia seen through novels, this ending may be the destination for East Asian children. It is precisely because the dull endings in reality are regarded as be again and again that we love novels and imagine he that may exist in another world through the stories at our fingertips.
It hurts, it hurts so much. Why can't two people who love each other be together? A representative of foreign love in Conan, the lovers in the House of Spiders, were not together because of cultural differences. A sentence that was supposed to be a blessing and praise was misinterpreted as a curse to curse death, which led to the tragedy of the two. I want to marry a bride who is like sunshine was misunderstood by a girl with poor English skills as si. After all, the second dimension is a fairy tale and cannot be substituted into the third dimension. The relationship between Matsuda and Mei is full of regrets. They are thousands of miles apart and cannot meet each other. The distance separates the couple. I also wonder why Mei can't be braver. She is bound by the rules of society and family and cannot obtain her true happiness. Marrying someone you don't love cannot overcome the psychological reaction. Feeling that I couldn't have a relationship with him, I was forced by my elders to give birth to a child I didn't love through in vitro fertilization, and then suffered from postpartum depression. If I had been braver, it would have been better to be with Matsuda. My sister must have had these thoughts in the past few years. I can't forget the snow in Hokkaido that year and the simple little happiness. The road we walked together, after get off work I can't forget the heart-pounding feeling when I remember the days when we went home together. I have met the best person, and I can't help but compare myself to him when I meet others in the future. I feel more disappointed. I cried when I saw Matsuda mending my sister's wedding dress. I couldn't help but think, how great it would be if the groom were you. When I saw Matsuda accompanying my sister for postpartum care, I thought, if it was the child's How wonderful it would be to be your father. After reading this article, I decided to find two sweet articles by Matsuda to heal myself. The writing is very good. I saw it from Xiaohongshu's tweets. I knew it was a sad ending before reading it, but I still want to read it. It was so sweet in the past, but then it became so sad. Thank you for writing such a good work! Come on!
Perhaps only selfish people can live more freely. Maybe only selfish people have fewer regrets.
I thought about what I would do if it were me.
I don't have such a strong sense of responsibility and dedication like the heroine; I am a bastard in the worldly sense. Even my parents told me exactly the same thing, and what I thought was, "It doesn't matter. You two try to live longer and live to your eighties; I am not in good health and will probably die early, around sixty. By then, wouldn't it be nice for us as a family of three to walk hand in hand?"
I'm selfish, I'm inconsiderate, and the only reason I let go is because I don't like the person anymore. As long as I still like the other person, then a foreign relationship is okay. My parents and I can live together for the rest of our lives, without having to move in with a strange man, and we can always be my parents' daughter instead of someone's wife. At the same time, I can talk about the cross-border relationship with my true love, "If the love lasts for a long time, how can we stay together day and night?" It doesn't matter if we meet once or twice a year. If the relationship is worn away by a long separation, it is better to wait until it wears off before breaking up, rather than breaking up while you are still deeply in love.
Moreover, transnational relationships do not affect having children. You do not need to obtain a marriage certificate in your home country, and children born out of wedlock are not lacking in legal rights. Leaving the father to keep the child is very friendly to only children. I have lived with my parents all my life, with two parents and a daughter. I am the backbone of the family, and the man I truly love shows up several times a year. What a wonderful matriarchal family, isn't it perfect...
Tsk, I am indeed an asshole.
But sisters, don't allow yourself to suffer. Pain is not an option for you. It is precisely because there are too few selfish girls that the situation of the heroine in the article appears. If there were more bold girls, and if matriarchal families were very common in society, then the heroine wouldn't need to suffer so much, she would just need to blend in smoothly.
I hope every girl will put herself first instead of being used to enduring pain.
Originally, I was thinking that if I didn't get married after 30, I would find someone I knew well to make a living. This paragraph felt like I was writing about myself, and I can relate to my life after marriage. Sure enough, the marriage still cannot be settled, and psychologically it is difficult to get through it first. While reading the article, I kept thinking, why can't I be more selfish and why can't I be more brave? Countless times I have thought about how great it would be if the groom were Matsuda Jinpei [crying]
Apart from disagreeing with the ethics of marriage and love, the teacher's writing is really good. The melancholy of loving but not being able to be together is well grasped, and the emotions are expressed very well. I like the teacher's writing very much, and I don't mean to say that the teacher's ideas are bad. I am willing to accept the things I don't like very much for the teacher's writing, and there is no preaching. It's just like what the teacher said in the author's words. As a Zhenping pusher, I have actually accepted too much melancholy. I do like reading melancholy articles, but I think it's a bit unfair. Emotionally, the male protagonist is really good. The heroine is also very lucky to meet a husband who also doesn't love her. As long as there is love, it would be even more unfair. The birth of this child was quite tragic. I wonder if the heroine will love her in such a delicate family. Let me emphasize again, there is no malice or preaching. I am just telling you my own feelings. Teachers don't need to take it to heart. I like the teacher's works very much and look forward to more works from the teacher in the future.
When I saw the part about childbirth, I committed ptsd again. The full text is too realistic and I have never dared to read it carefully. It is not death that makes love come to an abrupt end, so that you can use the blank space to express your condolences, but a heavier responsibility that cannot be abandoned, and an inescapable fate that makes two people in love. Separation, love is not invincible, missing it is missing [crying] [crying] [crying] As the author said, peace is a beautiful dream she had. After waking up from the dream, she has to continue to face reality. Compromising or not compromising is life and will be painful. Will you be braver? Choose to live the life you want?
It was so well written that I actually shed tears when I read it.
The writing is really good. The first part is so sweet and exotic. You really need to be brave to try it.
To be honest, I didn't read the previous ones and just looked at the last few pictures. The copy also reminded me that we probably couldn't be together, so I didn't dare to read the beginning because I was afraid that I would cry when I saw that we couldn't be together. I didn't expect that I couldn't hold back even if I watched the last ones. And when I think of the beautiful past that once existed, the helplessness of the final reality is even more heartbreaking.
I feel more like ne than be. I like this story. There is nothing to regret. It will be the same ending if I choose again. Be is irreversible but it is not particularly tragic. It is just returning to ordinary but still thinking about the happiness before.
Hiding in the toilet and crying [burst crying] [burst crying] [burst crying] [burst crying] [burst crying] The ability to empathize is so strong that I can't bear it. I feel very sorry that the heroine and Matsuda can't get through the same boat. It's really sad [burst crying]
Aoki can greatly improve his teammate's perspective. Dozens of chapters of Aoki's perspective of anxiety disorder are so uncomfortable to watch.
I finished reading it a few days ago. Although I shed a few tears, I felt like I had read someone else's story. I felt that I had probably forgotten it after reading it. I was having an ordinary meal outside this evening and suddenly thought of this story. Sadness seemed to spread from the bottom of my heart, slowly and firmly occupying the entire heart. My chest felt tight and painful, and even my breathing felt heavy. We are obviously eating, walking, and sleeping normally, but we are so sad and out of breath. It seems that we are just calmly looking at the straws pressing up on our backs one by one. People always have to move forward, no matter what is on their backs or what they lose on the way...
The passengers have got off the bus. Heartache beyond measure.
I like you so much today. . . How could it be so powerful? . . . The teacher wrote so well. . . Bai Yueguang should be like this. . . .
Love time is beautiful. The subsequent encounter had the feeling of Matsuda's presence borrowed from memories. It is inevitable to walk down this difficult road.
This article is really beautifully written! It's just stomachache╥╥
Tonic wow... I'm going to cry...
A very gentle article
I was afraid of knives, so I started reading the results from the last chapter. My tear ducts collapsed and my tears flowed everywhere... Oh my god...
Beating the author, I cried so much in the middle of the night
Read it. The starting point of this article may be that we clearly know that this relationship will not continue. It just so happened that I was currently in my graduation season, and suddenly felt this way. But I didn't fall in love first, and then I felt that the distance would be tiring. Although the two people in the article are still in love, I actually don't understand why it ended without any problem. After all, Matsuda and Meibao are such good people. I think they have the courage to sacrifice for the people they love. Meibao can get married and have children for her parents, but can't have a long-distance relationship for Matsuda, which makes me a little confused. After all, going to Japan is not complicated, and having a long-distance relationship in a foreign country is about the same difficulty as a long-distance relationship between the North and the South. But thinking about it later, it was just because I thought this was the second dimension. I subconsciously thought that there was no pressure like the third dimension, parents' urging and lack of understanding of marriage, and strange looks from colleagues. It's just that these things don't exist in the second dimension. That's why I felt that the separation between the two people was very abrupt. So if you don't understand this article, maybe it's a good thing. It at least means you haven't been crushed by the pressure of reality. I hope everyone can love and hate as they please, and thank the author again for his output. Very tasty knife that makes me spin left and right
This ending is actually very idealistic. In fact, the heroine will only have a harder time than in the article. In reality, the pressure of her parents, the criticism of secular morality, and her husband's self-esteem will only make the heroine fall deeper into hell.
I never expected that the most fortunate thing after reading it would be that I made a firm choice to remain unmarried and have no children and received support from my whole family. While crying, I once again strengthened my resolve to remain unmarried and have no children.
It's so sad. For my parents to go against my wishes and face a future I don't want. I should never go down this road. It's too painful to think about it. It's too painful.
Why. I suddenly felt sour and angry. Why do you have to get your children married and have children for your own peace of mind? Why should you lose your life just for their peace of mind? Although this is very realistic. But I still couldn't control my reason - I felt sad, so sad. In other words, I always feel that maybe I will follow in this footsteps in the future and become a member of the secular mainstream. I'm so scared
It's so sad. In reality, there are always so many alternatives. There are always some things that cannot be done both ways. After making a choice, no matter how sad or regretful you are, you can only go on. The joys, sorrows, love and hate in the two-dimensional world are so grand, and darkness and light conflict and struggle fiercely. In the third dimension, people may have tried their best just to maintain the status quo of life, and are trapped by trivial and fragmented pressure. The future is unknown. Life can be seen at a glance, step by step, and follow the rules, and there is no room for too much romance and ideals. All the characters I like are my hopes and fantasies, my unattainable extravagances. Determined and passionate, brave and sincere, he rushed to the grand fireworks on the Ferris wheel and was willing to face death for the public benefit. Sure enough it was still uncomfortable. . . The article is written here, but there will be a long, long time after this. And for the rest of my life, when time passes, years settle, and across a long distance, we can only be treated as friends, and there is no reason to be closer to each other. How do you go through the countless days and nights in the life of two words? How can you suppress the overflowing thoughts and stop thinking about the person who gave you all the respect and love you hoped for? How can you pretend that you no longer miss him and talk about the other person and the past as if nothing happened. Suddenly I thought of this sentence, "Afraid of being asked, swallow your tears and pretend to be happy." From now on, you will have completely different lives with no intersection, and he will be a passer-by and an outsider after all.
God... I really feel it. It's entirely because of your parents that you choose to marry someone you don't love. You say you have to ruthlessly follow your own wishes, but it's actually very difficult to think about your parents. The relationship between Chinese people and their parents is really awkward. It's impossible to say that you don't care at all. The last sentence of the episode is really heartbreaking. Watching him disappear from your life like this... Intersect and then separate.
Woohoo, it's so uncomfortable. I got up in the middle of the night and wiped my tears. (I feel so sorry for the heroine-chan and Jinpei. The two people who love each other can't be together in the end. Woohoo, I cried so hard that my nose had bubbles popping out.
The ending is too realistic for a novel, but not too bad for reality. You won't meet such a stunning Matsuda, and you may not be lucky enough to meet a "sir" who is compatible with you, but you will definitely meet parents who will not be alone regardless of your wishes in order to give you support for the rest of your life. Fathers who know you don't want to but will still desperately urge you to get married. Mother, "When will you grow up?", "I will feel at ease when you get married", "If we don't get married now, what will you do when we get old?", "My biggest wish now is to see you get married"... The author writes very well, so I don't have the courage to read this article a second time.
It's hard to describe my mood because I'm probably in the same situation as the heroine except for being in love. . Studying in a foreign country, I want to stay outside and see the wider world, but I can never do this because of my feelings for my parents. I once vowed to make my own achievements, but in the end I chose to accept mediocrity near the end of the story and began to prepare for the step-by-step steps that should be taken in life. Compared with the utopia seen through novels, this ending may be the destination for East Asian children. It is precisely because the dull endings in reality are regarded as be again and again that we love novels and imagine he that may exist in another world through the stories at our fingertips.
It hurts, it hurts so much. Why can't two people who love each other be together? A representative of foreign love in Conan, the lovers in the House of Spiders, were not together because of cultural differences. A sentence that was supposed to be a blessing and praise was misinterpreted as a curse to curse death, which led to the tragedy of the two. I want to marry a bride who is like sunshine was misunderstood by a girl with poor English skills as si. After all, the second dimension is a fairy tale and cannot be substituted into the third dimension. The relationship between Matsuda and Mei is full of regrets. They are thousands of miles apart and cannot meet each other. The distance separates the couple. I also wonder why Mei can't be braver. She is bound by the rules of society and family and cannot obtain her true happiness. Marrying someone you don't love cannot overcome the psychological reaction. Feeling that I couldn't have a relationship with him, I was forced by my elders to give birth to a child I didn't love through in vitro fertilization, and then suffered from postpartum depression. If I had been braver, it would have been better to be with Matsuda. My sister must have had these thoughts in the past few years. I can't forget the snow in Hokkaido that year and the simple little happiness. The road we walked together, after get off work I can't forget the heart-pounding feeling when I remember the days when we went home together. I have met the best person, and I can't help but compare myself to him when I meet others in the future. I feel more disappointed. I cried when I saw Matsuda mending my sister's wedding dress. I couldn't help but think, how great it would be if the groom were you. When I saw Matsuda accompanying my sister for postpartum care, I thought, if it was the child's How wonderful it would be to be your father. After reading this article, I decided to find two sweet articles by Matsuda to heal myself. The writing is very good. I saw it from Xiaohongshu's tweets. I knew it was a sad ending before reading it, but I still want to read it. It was so sweet in the past, but then it became so sad. Thank you for writing such a good work! Come on!
Perhaps only selfish people can live more freely. Maybe only selfish people have fewer regrets. I thought about what I would do if it were me. I don't have such a strong sense of responsibility and dedication like the heroine; I am a bastard in the worldly sense. Even my parents told me exactly the same thing, and what I thought was, "It doesn't matter. You two try to live longer and live to your eighties; I am not in good health and will probably die early, around sixty. By then, wouldn't it be nice for us as a family of three to walk hand in hand?" I'm selfish, I'm inconsiderate, and the only reason I let go is because I don't like the person anymore. As long as I still like the other person, then a foreign relationship is okay. My parents and I can live together for the rest of our lives, without having to move in with a strange man, and we can always be my parents' daughter instead of someone's wife. At the same time, I can talk about the cross-border relationship with my true love, "If the love lasts for a long time, how can we stay together day and night?" It doesn't matter if we meet once or twice a year. If the relationship is worn away by a long separation, it is better to wait until it wears off before breaking up, rather than breaking up while you are still deeply in love. Moreover, transnational relationships do not affect having children. You do not need to obtain a marriage certificate in your home country, and children born out of wedlock are not lacking in legal rights. Leaving the father to keep the child is very friendly to only children. I have lived with my parents all my life, with two parents and a daughter. I am the backbone of the family, and the man I truly love shows up several times a year. What a wonderful matriarchal family, isn't it perfect... Tsk, I am indeed an asshole. But sisters, don't allow yourself to suffer. Pain is not an option for you. It is precisely because there are too few selfish girls that the situation of the heroine in the article appears. If there were more bold girls, and if matriarchal families were very common in society, then the heroine wouldn't need to suffer so much, she would just need to blend in smoothly. I hope every girl will put herself first instead of being used to enduring pain.
Originally, I was thinking that if I didn't get married after 30, I would find someone I knew well to make a living. This paragraph felt like I was writing about myself, and I can relate to my life after marriage. Sure enough, the marriage still cannot be settled, and psychologically it is difficult to get through it first. While reading the article, I kept thinking, why can't I be more selfish and why can't I be more brave? Countless times I have thought about how great it would be if the groom were Matsuda Jinpei [crying]
Apart from disagreeing with the ethics of marriage and love, the teacher's writing is really good. The melancholy of loving but not being able to be together is well grasped, and the emotions are expressed very well. I like the teacher's writing very much, and I don't mean to say that the teacher's ideas are bad. I am willing to accept the things I don't like very much for the teacher's writing, and there is no preaching. It's just like what the teacher said in the author's words. As a Zhenping pusher, I have actually accepted too much melancholy. I do like reading melancholy articles, but I think it's a bit unfair. Emotionally, the male protagonist is really good. The heroine is also very lucky to meet a husband who also doesn't love her. As long as there is love, it would be even more unfair. The birth of this child was quite tragic. I wonder if the heroine will love her in such a delicate family. Let me emphasize again, there is no malice or preaching. I am just telling you my own feelings. Teachers don't need to take it to heart. I like the teacher's works very much and look forward to more works from the teacher in the future.
When I saw the part about childbirth, I committed ptsd again. The full text is too realistic and I have never dared to read it carefully. It is not death that makes love come to an abrupt end, so that you can use the blank space to express your condolences, but a heavier responsibility that cannot be abandoned, and an inescapable fate that makes two people in love. Separation, love is not invincible, missing it is missing [crying] [crying] [crying] As the author said, peace is a beautiful dream she had. After waking up from the dream, she has to continue to face reality. Compromising or not compromising is life and will be painful. Will you be braver? Choose to live the life you want?
It was so well written that I actually shed tears when I read it.
The writing is really good. The first part is so sweet and exotic. You really need to be brave to try it.
To be honest, I didn't read the previous ones and just looked at the last few pictures. The copy also reminded me that we probably couldn't be together, so I didn't dare to read the beginning because I was afraid that I would cry when I saw that we couldn't be together. I didn't expect that I couldn't hold back even if I watched the last ones. And when I think of the beautiful past that once existed, the helplessness of the final reality is even more heartbreaking.
I feel more like ne than be. I like this story. There is nothing to regret. It will be the same ending if I choose again. Be is irreversible but it is not particularly tragic. It is just returning to ordinary but still thinking about the happiness before.
Hiding in the toilet and crying [burst crying] [burst crying] [burst crying] [burst crying] [burst crying] The ability to empathize is so strong that I can't bear it. I feel very sorry that the heroine and Matsuda can't get through the same boat. It's really sad [burst crying]
Aoki can greatly improve his teammate's perspective. Dozens of chapters of Aoki's perspective of anxiety disorder are so uncomfortable to watch.
I finished reading it a few days ago. Although I shed a few tears, I felt like I had read someone else's story. I felt that I had probably forgotten it after reading it. I was having an ordinary meal outside this evening and suddenly thought of this story. Sadness seemed to spread from the bottom of my heart, slowly and firmly occupying the entire heart. My chest felt tight and painful, and even my breathing felt heavy. We are obviously eating, walking, and sleeping normally, but we are so sad and out of breath. It seems that we are just calmly looking at the straws pressing up on our backs one by one. People always have to move forward, no matter what is on their backs or what they lose on the way...
The passengers have got off the bus. Heartache beyond measure.
I like you so much today. . . How could it be so powerful? . . . The teacher wrote so well. . . Bai Yueguang should be like this. . . .
Love time is beautiful. The subsequent encounter had the feeling of Matsuda's presence borrowed from memories. It is inevitable to walk down this difficult road.
This article is really beautifully written! It's just stomachache╥╥
Tonic wow... I'm going to cry...
A very gentle article
I was afraid of knives, so I started reading the results from the last chapter. My tear ducts collapsed and my tears flowed everywhere... Oh my god...
Beating the author, I cried so much in the middle of the night