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2022.9.26, The fourth hot search item on Weibo.
Don't chat frequently with people you can't possibly talk to.
Whether you like it or not, high-frequency chatting can really give people the illusion of being in love. Sharing your own life, accepting other people's stories, and discussing each other's innermost opinions are already very intimate in itself. The dopamine produced by pleasurable communication is highly addictive.
While thinking that I just "met a friend I can chat with", I can't help but become impatient and anxious because the other person doesn't reply/is slow to reply to messages. Want to know what he is doing when he ignores you? In order to make this possessiveness sound reasonable, start to convince yourself that I like this person?
But after we are really together or have not been in contact for a long time, we will immediately realize clearly:
That's habit, not love.
So don't chat frequently with people you feel are inappropriate.
Rather than starting passively, it is better to give up rationally.
Purpose: I hope every girl will not have any regrets like me.