The three ultimate philosophical questions of mankind: Who am I? Where do I come from? Where will I go?
Once we understand them, we will understand all our confusions. No one can find a perfect answer, we just have to answer it for ourselves.
Stick to what you insist on and give up what you give up; love what you love; hate what you hate. Understanding your position is more important than anything else.
What this article says, in the final analysis, is that the source of everything is just three words: a sense of belonging!