"Did you know? The relationship between a child and her mother is her first relationship with this society. Psychologists call it attachment. Avoidant attachment is a type of attachment. It means that if the mother leaves the child, the child will show no concern."
"So? Do you have to cry when someone leaves?" Qiao Heguang sneered.
"As the caregiver of young children, mothers are the source of their sense of security. If they lose their sense of security, their children will cry. Children who cry when their mothers leave but are quickly comforted when their mothers return are judged to be secure attachments, which is also the most common attachment relationship in the world." The opposite person continued to explain.
"You mean I'm not normal?" Qiao Heguang suddenly regretted coming to this psychological consultation.
"What I mean is that your emotional pattern is abnormal. You should find a normal relationship instead of dwelling on the past or drifting between men one after another." The psychiatrist pushed up his glasses and said to her seriously: "Looking like you don't care doesn't mean you really don't care. Those accumulated abandoned memories and emotions will only make you more and more disappointed with life. Learn to trust others, Linne."
Qiao Heguang lowered her head, her whole body was dim. She couldn't speak, but the whimpering and shaking shoulders betrayed her first.
Life is in a hurry, the only way to get through it is by yourself.
Intention: self-reliance