Someone once asked Ye Chang a question: "Ye Chang, what is secret love?"
"A secret love, probably because I like this person, I will love the person or thing he likes all over the place, and I want to have him. He is obviously close at hand, but out of reach."
"Wouldn't that be very painful?"
"No, because it's that person, you won't feel bitter. Rather than owning him, you would rather have him shine, even if you are not standing next to him."
"Then do you have a crush on anyone?"
"Yes"
"So are you still in contact now?"
"No contact
Intent: Love without asking for anything in return