Cool Down in the Morning

I declare that Jiutian is officially disbanded! ! ! ! By the way, wouldn't Mr. Lu make some money?

It's disgusting. Even if you abandon your wife and children for the mission, it is undeniable that your scumbag father is still very diligent and hardworking. Now you are accusing your abandoned wife of betrayal? It's ridiculous to think about the future

I read this article when I was in high school, and I recently reviewed it again for a long review. Yu Qing is a girl who "has the habit of suppressing her emotions too deeply". After her parents divorced when she was eleven years old, she lived with her mother, but she was constantly consumed in this relationship - Qiu Xin's control and emotional blackmail, and her stepfather's dependence on others made her learn silence and compromise prematurely. Her growth process was full of "hypothermia" moments: she worked in a coffee shop, wore sneakers that were washed white, and grew her long hair for three years to sell it for 500 yuan - these details accurately outline the image of a girl who lives in distress and has an equally barren spiritual world. She locked herself in a "little house full of sorrow" and remained highly vigilant about the world. However, Wen Zexu was the one who held the umbrella for her calmly. The author does not portray Wen Zexu as a flawless savior. On the contrary, he was "premeditated" and full of "dark side". Before Yu Qing knew it, he had been her tuition sponsor, the stranger who helped her solve the embarrassment of her menstrual period. His love began with "curiosity", but over the long period of protection, it settled into a deep affection that cannot be let go. Wen Zexu was well versed in the art of "gentle knife" and used a seemingly conceding attitude to let Yu Qing walk towards him. This "unfair" motive actually makes this character richer, because true love is never completely bright, it is possessive, calculating and uneasy - just as Wen Zesu himself said: "My heart is too dark and bad, and you won't like me who is so depressed and restrained." The most touching part to me is probably how Yu Qing completed self-reconstruction in this love. Wen Zexu did not use control to express "love" like her mother, nor did she only stay in the skin of favor like those superficial suitors. Instead, she taught her step by step in an almost educational way: "You are not a minority, but you are definitely unique"; "Semi-dependent, semi-independent, this is love"; "I will pay attention to all your worries." Instead of condescendingly trying to save her, he knelt down, looked at her level, and waited for her to stand up on her own. The first thing Wen Zesu taught her was not how to love him, but how to love herself - how to face her own desires and weaknesses, how to find a balance between anxiety and achievement, and how to get out of that small house full of sadness. Yu Qing's pen name "The Hypothermic Chunrou" originated from the morning when she first met Wen Zesu when she was eleven years old - her parents quarreled, life was chaotic, everything was out of order, and only his gentle "morning" when he walked out of the guest room became the only warm color in her memory. They didn't even really know each other at that time, but she treasured that beautiful second for ten years. When Yu Qing later changed her pen name to "Chun Rou", she said: "I no longer have hypothermia." This was an important signal - she changed from a role of passively enduring the cooling of life to a controller of the temperature of her own life. This story does not rely on the ups and downs of the plot, but on the delicate description of daily life, allowing us to witness how a numb and cold heart learns to beat again, and how a person who dares not to love is gently taught how to love. The reason why "Morning Cooling" touches people's hearts is that it describes the whole process of how an ordinary girl goes from "not believing in love" to "learning to love". Yu Qing finally sang "To My Puberty" at the wedding. She said: "I have no one to love. For a moment, I felt as if the world could be okay without me." This sentence expresses the feelings of many people who have been hurt in their original families. And her turning point was when someone told her: "For twenty-one years, Yu Qing has not believed in love. In the spring of her twenty-first year, Yu Qing saw the look of her lover in Wen Zexu." The story of Wen Zexu and Yu Qing, on the surface, is about marriage first and love later with a seven-year age difference, but at its core, it is about how a person is healed gently, patiently, and day after day. Wen Zexu said: "Love is, half-dependent, half-independent." This definition runs throughout the book - Yu Qing relies on the sense of security he provides, but also learns to be independent in the process; Wen Zexu relies on her existence to fill the same hole in his heart, but must also learn to let go when she is about to go abroad. True love is not possession, but "we can love each other until we understand each other, and we can waste it until we die." When Yu Qing finally said "Wen Zexu, I love you too," it was not only a confession to a man, but also a sign that she had finally reconciled with herself - she finally believed that she was worthy of being loved and was finally able to love. From the jerky initiative of "Sir, why don't you marry me" to the affectionate determination of "In my heart, my spring is still you", Yu Qing spent a long time to complete a transformation from self-doubt to self-confirmation. In a way, "Morning Cool" is a love letter to anyone who has been hurt during adolescence. It tells us: There will always be someone who will hold an umbrella for you when you don't know it, there will always be someone who is willing to trade a long wait for your "yes", and there will always be love that is gentle enough to melt your heart that has been frozen for many years. The most precious thing is that this love will not make you lose yourself, but will allow you to truly live the way you want in the balance of "half-dependence and half-independence". "In the morning of hypothermia, I met my spring softness." This is Yu Qing's comment on his life, and it is also the best hope of this novel for readers - I hope that we can all meet our own spring softness after a long period of hypothermia.

The softness of spring meets the gentleness, and flowers grow on their own in the desolation [Spreading Flowers] On a rainy morning, a simple good morning became the prelude to their fate. When they first met, Yu Qing thought it was just a chance encounter, which would be diluted by time in a blink of an eye, but Wen Zesu's heart had lost his sense of proportion for her as early as seven years ago. At first, he was just out of curiosity, wanting to be a rose picker, but gradually he became filled with joy. He suppressed his strong desire for possession and was willing to wait for this flower named Yuqing to stretch freely and grow freely. Yu Qing's pen name hides a romantic foreshadowing unique to the two of them. The first "warm spring softness" freezes the morning of the cooling and heavy rain. On those bad days, Wen Zexu is the warm spring softness that hits her face; by chance, it turns into "warm spring softness", which means that she is the tenderness that belongs to Wen Zexu alone, and it is all the preferences that he personally gave to her. In the end, it was simply called "Chunrou", and the two became the irreplaceable Chunrou in each other's lives. Her casual "I don't think about anyone else but you" can easily break down all Wen Zexu's restraint and make him willing to surrender. Yu Qing has been trapped in the repression of his native family for a long time, trapped by his mother's endless ridicule and restraint, and is used to giving in and digesting all grievances alone. Only Wen Zesu would carry her home steadily when she was having a hard time. His words, "You don't have to be too sensible with me," were the salvation that shined into her gloomy life. He plays chess decisively, taking the lead every step of the way when playing against his elders, but he is willing to lose to Yu Qing in the backgammon game. No matter how much others say, they can't sway him, but as long as Yu Qing whispers "I can't refuse", he is willing to sink. Wen Zexu was never a condescending preacher, but the gentlest guide on Yu Qing's growth path. He patiently tolerates all her childishness and sensitivities, and always looks at her on an equal footing. He will not use his elder status to condescendingly lecture her, nor will he ridicule her for her shallow experience and simple mind. He would take her to the mountains and seas, leaving as soon as she felt like it, and accompany her to experience new things that she had never touched before. On New Year's Eve, the sky was filled with dazzling fireworks at the beach. From the beginning to the end, his eyes only fell on the girl beside him who made his heart full of love. He was so meticulous that he helped her revise her resume, using "we" instead of "you" in every sentence, binding the two of them together at all times; when the bad comments on the Internet made her think about withdrawing, he firmly told her that her innate talent was irreplaceable. "Because I have a husband, the reasons for choosing you will always work." He is the god in Yu Qing's troubled life, her unwavering supporter, and the husband she is willing to call out. Faced with unnecessary overtures from others, Yu Qing didn't know how to refuse them politely, and fell into a long-term mental internal conflict. Wen Zexu never forced her to force herself, taught her to let go of the unnecessary psychological burden, and gave her a mature and thoughtful way to deal with it. Even if he is filled with jealousy and hopes that she will favor him more, he will always put her emotions before his own selfish desires. There are many differences in age, material resources, and experience between the two, and Yu Qing is always aware of it. She often fell into self-doubt, fearing that she was not good enough to be worthy of the dazzling Wen Zesu; she worried that her ordinary work and simple outfit would make him criticized by others. The root cause of this cautious inferiority has never been resentment of the gap, but that she truly accepted Wen Zexu's unreserved love and wanted to give back the same tenderness. One rainy night, Wen Zexu was carrying Yu Qing, who was walking heavily. She recalled the time when her father carried her through the long night when she was young, and laughed at herself for being barren, desolate, and full of dirt. But he solemnly told her that he would plant flowers in her barren soil and protect her from blooming forever and never withering. She was afraid that she was immature, so he reassured her that everyone has their own growth rhythm. He is willing to walk in front of her, shield her from the world's wind and frost in advance, and when she is confused and helpless, he will look back and tell her that all difficulties will eventually dissipate. He devoted all his efforts to teach her softness and strength bit by bit. Under his protection, the timid and sensitive little girl slowly grew into a sober and independent person. The days when Chunrou Comics encountered plagiarism scandals were really heart-wrenching. Cartoonist Yu Qing has to bear all the criticism on the Internet alone, and there is constant turmoil from the outside world. Without Wen Zexu by her side, she would be alone and helpless. Fortunately, he will always be standing behind her, supporting her with a stable world. By chance, Yu Qing saw a letter he had written to his sponsor placed on Wen Zexu's desk. He was instantly shaken, fearing that their relationship would be adulterated. She has always hated concealment and deception. Even though she knew that he deliberately hid part of his past, she never denied all his sincerity. She treasures all the tenderness and preference she feels day after day in her heart. Wen Zexu has always been calm and restrained, and his emotions are always calm. But when he encounters Yu Qing, he will completely lose his reason, lose control, be jealous, and be full of longing. Yu Qing has seen too many unpredictable people. They are used to erecting sharp shells to protect themselves, like a hedgehog, isolating love from the outside world, for fear of getting hurt if they show their sincerity. But facing Wen Zexu, she was willing to let go of all her defenses, even if the shell would scratch her, she still wanted to accept the tenderness he offered calmly. Wen Zexu was well aware of her soft heart, and would occasionally show weakness deliberately to trick her into revealing her true feelings. In the past, he would compete with the puppies in the comics and be jealous of the characters in the paintings for taking away her attention. Until one day, he personally walked into Yu Qing's works. She wrote a long article on the social platform, frankly announcing that choosing to spend the rest of her life with Wen Zexu was never an impulse, but a firm decision after careful consideration. Love lasts forever, no matter when you see him, your heart will still beat. She wanted to tell this grand love to the whole world and let everyone know that she loved Wen Zesu deeply. Two-color tulips were used as bouquets at the wedding. The flower language hides the romance that belongs to the two of them - a happy reunion. When they first met, she spoke softly and had timidity in her eyes, which caught Wen Zexu's sight; when they met again by chance on a rainy day in a narrow alley, he silently put away his umbrella and watched her go away quietly. From that moment of heartbeat, he has been silently guarding her, settling all her troubles, and willingly dedicating the rest of his life to her. A chance meeting in the morning of heavy rain, seven years of long-lasting silent thoughts, going around and around, the tenderness of spring returns, and flowers bloom in the desolation. They are the unique destination in each other's life.

Ding~Business fluid blessing update is stress-free!

I hope our Chunrou and Diplomat Wen will be happy forever in the parallel world?ˋ????ˊ?

I feel so good watching (what), is there any food tonight [please]

Wow [Caigou] got hurt, they got close to each other and healed. As for how they got hurt, don't worry about it.

In Chapter 144, 227 is repeated, but 226 [Top chin][Top chin]

Ah ha ha ha ha ha, you can do it for me, I like to see it