In my humble opinion, it is enough to do happy things with your lover, regardless of whether it is a calamity or fate.
Destiny and origin may seem long-lasting, but looking back is only a fleeting moment. It is better to do what you want to do, love the person you want to love, regardless of right or wrong, regardless of the consequences.
Concept: There are creeping grasses in the wild, and there is no dew. There is a beautiful person, clear and graceful. We meet each other by chance, just as I wish. There are creeping grasses in the wild, and there is no dew. There is a beautiful person, as graceful as clear air. We meet each other by chance, and we meet each other by chance. ——"The Book of Songs·Guofeng·Zheng Feng·Wild Weeds"