On April 21, 2002, I boarded a train from Wuhan to Puhai, a small coastal town in the south. I was thirty-two years old that year. Before this, I was a journalist working for a local TV station. Leaving my familiar hometown and going to a strange foreign land in my thirties was not due to my ambition or passion.
My child is in elementary school, and her mother was laid off a few years ago. When I faced a mediocre career, complex human relations at work, and even an income that could not guarantee the normal functioning of the family, I had to face the reality, give up the vanity in front of me, put aside the timidity in my heart, resign decisively, and go to work. I went to a former colleague who was both my teacher and brother far away to seek help and get a chance to change the current situation so that I could fully fulfill my family responsibilities as a man and create ideal living and learning conditions for my children to prevent them from repeating my growth experience and experiencing the hardships and hardships of life again.
Intention: The fact that has happened in front of you is the arrangement of fate. Even if you don't accept it, you can't change the fact at all. The only thing that can change is to tear off your own whitewashing and covering up, and rekindle the courage to face your original intention.