Cong Jue had the same dream over and over again. In the dream, she asked the psychologist Fromm: "Why don't I understand love?" But every dream was not answered.
And in her long life, she was sentenced to death in the field of love in advance because of her insecure traits——
"No one will like you if you are so dishonest";
"What's so confusing about this? I don't understand why you are hesitating";
"Research proves that secure lovers are better for physical and mental health";
"A good relationship is the best psychiatrist";
"Never date an avoidant person";
...
Cong Jue is confused: When did safety become the passport to love? If this is the case, then will a person like her, who has been secretly healed after being riddled with wounds, but can no longer trust or love due to labor pains, have to live alone for the rest of her life?
But Cong Jue never believed in fate.
She carried her bag, which was filled with the courage to move forward and the persistence to move forward even if she was destined to be lonely.
Later, Cong Jue gradually understood that "love" is a rare ability, and learning it requires a little good luck, a lot of patience, and endless courage.
Cong Jue was prepared to spend her life acquiring this ability, but no one told her that being loved could speed up the process, and Lian Qingkuo was her catalyst.
Insecure lovers find solace in secure relationships—
Lian Qingkuo: "Cong Jue, you can always verify your 'wishful thinking' with me. I promise you that these feelings will never be self-inflicted."
No matter who you are, you will also worry about gains and losses in relationships——
Lian Qingkuo: "Cong Jue, I am not your parents, and our ending will not follow their footsteps. You can't sentence my feelings to death so early. It's too cruel."
And love is the spoils of the brave——
Cong Jue: "Lian Qingkuo, if you have no objection, I want to invite you to be my boyfriend. I hope you won't refuse."
Lian Qingkuo endured it again and again, but still hugged Cong Jue into his arms. Cong Jue felt his chest shaking due to his low laughter, and heard him say with a smile: "Where did you infer that I might refuse?"
Concept: Insecure lovers can also have safe and adaptable love, it just requires some bravery and endless patience.
