Zhang Weiran was careless in the first fifteen years, thinking that everything would be fine when she grew up, with a decent job, a big and bright house, and a beautiful love. But she didn't realize that she had bad habits. She had no perseverance and couldn't persevere.
He Ting was very persistent in the first fifteen years. He knew what he wanted and would work hard for what he wanted. He Ting grew up in love, grew up in rich material conditions, and was righteous.
Zhang Weiran thought: "I want to make myself worthy of going to He Ting, he is worthy."
Zhang Weiran walked into He Ting's home and said just one sentence: Can I come and sit at your house?
It took Zhang Weiran 8 years to enter He Ting's life: I have been working hard to make myself worthy of you.
Purpose: No one is your salvation except yourself.