I'm married, and I'm not very interested in the person I'm getting married to. I think I'm very good to him, and I don't care about drinking and picking up girls.
Then one day he actually told me that he wanted to live a good life with me. I thought he was talking nonsense, but I pretended and cooperated with him.
Unexpectedly, he really wanted to start living with me.
This caught me a little off guard.
Intention: I don't know what the standard answer is either