Lu You was born in a well-to-do scholarly family in Shanyang, Yuezhou. When he was a child, the Jin people invaded the south, and he often fled with his family. His maternal uncle Tang Cheng's family had many contacts with the Lu family. Tang Cheng has a daughter named Tang Wan. She is quiet, smart and talented since she was a child. She is good at poetry and prose at the age of 12. She is proficient in music, chess, calligraphy and painting at the age of 18. She is not good at words but is considerate. She and Lu You, who are similar in age, are in love with each other and become childhood sweethearts. They spend a good time together in troubled times.
Lu You and Tang Wan expressed their hearts through poetry. The parents, relatives and friends of the two families all believed that they were a match made in heaven, so the Lu family used an exquisite phoenix hairpin from their family as a token to make a marriage agreement with the Tang family. Lu You married Tang Wan at the age of 20, and the two were harmonious. Unfortunately, the two had no children for three years after their marriage. In addition, Lu You was not motivated to take the imperial examination and get an official position, which caused dissatisfaction with his mother, who had Tang syndrome. Lu You is obsessed with love and has no intention of studying for exams. His mother, Tang Wan, was looking forward to her son being named on the gold medal list. Seeing Lu You's situation, she was very dissatisfied and reprimanded Tang Wan several times, accusing her of putting her husband's future in the imperial examination first. But at this time, Lu and Tang were deeply in love and it was difficult to get rid of them. Mother Lu was very disgusted with Tang Wan because of this, thinking that Tang Wan would delay her son's future. He forced Lu You to write a book quickly, and ordered Tang Wan to abandon Tang Wan, strictly ordering them to cut off all contact with each other, and marry Lu You to a docile and dutiful daughter of the Wang family. As for Tang Wan, her family decided to marry Zhao Shicheng, a scholar from the same county. Zhao Shicheng was tolerant, open-minded and knowledgeable, and had a deep friendship with Tang Wan. From then on, contact and information between Lu and Tang were cut off.
Intention: The inability to love and helplessness in feudal society