Like most people born in the 1990s, she has lived with the older generation since she was a child. It's not that her parents are completely absent, but that her grandparents give her more company than her parents do. She wrote this in an essay when she was a student: "There were many voices while growing up; my father's roar, my mother's nagging, my relatives' nagging, etc., But the most common voice was my grandma's murmuring."
When she was a child, her grandmother said, "This girl is too naughty and I can't control her." But she stayed with her to sleep every night.
When she was young, her grandmother said: "This girl doesn't like to study, I don't care." But she prepared a meal for her when she came home from school.
When she came of age, her grandmother said: "This girl is busy and far away, so she can't take care of her even if she wants to." However, when her mother was on vacation, she actively followed her mother to the city where she worked to accompany her.
Grandma always said a lot, but she also did a lot for her
Intention: remembrance, longing