Gentle and kind people should not go through that pain, let alone fade away in endless pain.
World 1: The considerate wife x the gentle and kind shopkeeper
It's not wrong to be gentle and kind, it's those ungrateful white-eyed wolves who are wrong.
World 2: The gentle and introverted young lady x the unlearned young son of a general
It is never wrong to hold military power. It is not wrong to shed the last drop of blood for the border and gain a great reputation for this. It is the despicable people who are wrong.
World 3: The charming and lovely fiancée x the upright and prudent prince of the Hou family
It's not wrong to be cold on the outside and hot on the inside. It's not wrong to be unprotected against people you trust. What's wrong is the person who uses it to stab you in the back.
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Intention: There is nothing wrong with being kind