Qiao You didn't know when he was targeted, but every time he resisted, he was still led into the trap. Even later, she didn't know that those "routines" were all carefully prepared by Fu Yan for her.
Fu Yancheng always uniquely calls her: chan chan
Qiao You: I don't like eating that much either!
That night Fu Yancheng: It was a pestering man.
Greed, entanglement, and cicada are all her chan
Intention: Little do you know that loving you is not accidental