Is love possessing or letting go? If love is like that tiny piece of sand, it will still be lost no matter how hard I pull it. Instead of slowly suffering and waiting for all the sand to run away, it is better to take the initiative to let go. At least we gain air while being free and unrestrained.
Sometimes don't be too persistent, otherwise you won't be the only one who gets hurt. Since you love, give love freedom and let love become greater!