What I said before:
Do you have a friend who you can't bear to fall in love with? Even though you meet her too late, even though you know it's her, you are afraid! This is a problem of friends being unwilling and lovers being dissatisfied. I don't want to tell you the answer, because I don't have the answer yet. Maybe some answers were destined a long time ago...
Intention: Slowness means long journey, companionship is the most affectionate confession