Ode to Joy Is Born Like a Summer Flower

Fromm, a famous American psychologist, has a classic saying: Immature love is because I need you, so I love you. Mature love is because I love you, so I need you. Immature feelings believe in: "I love because I am loved." This kind of love is conditional. You must meet my needs before I am willing to love you. A mature intimate relationship is always: I am loved because I love others. Cherish each other, take the initiative to consider you, take care of your emotions, sincerely hope you have a good life, and let you be yourself. If you regard "real needs" as love, your feelings will become utilitarian. Just like some people take your kindness to them for granted. When they need you, they hope you can be on call; when they don't need you, they wish you stayed far away and don't disturb their life. Mature love is not forced, but a lasting and comfortable feeling. Many people think that long-distance relationships will gradually fade away, but some research shows that long-distance relationships can also maintain passion for a long time. Both parties can even trust each other more and the relationship can become closer. Intention: Spiritually independent! Emotionally interdependent