A girl who was born in a rural area and grew up with a violent mother has determined to live a different life from her mother since she was a child. She witnessed her mother transform from a village beauty into a decadent old lady. Her mother's biggest reflection in her life was that she should not marry her father. She has never noticed anything wrong with her strength and irrefutability in the family. Her mother is She is an extremely contradictory woman who thinks she can do anything well and quickly, and is willing to endure hardships, but she has never really taken a step forward, such as divorcing her father, or following relatives' suggestions to make a living in the city. However, under long-term oppression by her father, her living habits and methods must be consistent with her mother's, down to how to use chopsticks to stir noodles in a pot.
Another characteristic of my mother is frugality, excessive frugality. Generally speaking, she knows that her children can only have a future by studying, and she also supports their children's study. However, her frugality means that her daughter in high school does not even have a change of clothes. Her daughter wanted to buy a dress first after passing the exam, but she was scolded. This concept of life has made a pair of children have low self-esteem in their bones. The daughter has a better life, and has been smooth from studying to working, and has gradually got rid of the shackles of low self-esteem, but the son The daughter is more miserable. Although she has gone to college, she is not good at anything because of her lack of assertiveness and self-confidence. She has not passed the civil service examination for ten years. What she is best at is being as frugal as her mother and not being able to listen to others' bad comments about herself. After seeing her brother become like her mother, her daughter felt desperate and decided that she must make a difference, so that her brother can face her own life again, and she also wants her mother to know that women can have multiple choices in life.
Intention: We are the ordinary majority, but we also want to be extraordinary among the majority