Just care about once having...
If you no longer have it, what's the point of having it?
What is no longer there... Is nothingness, or garbage.
Those who say they don't care are all lies to themselves.
People who can say that they give up casually are because they can no longer care. Saying that they will be heartbroken afterwards is just an excuse, looking for themselves and others.
Grab something... If you care.
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