Ancient sayings
Ah Chou's mother-in-law always complained about this and that, complained about the price increase of vegetables, complained about the birth of a big fat boy in the old Li family, complained about the emperor's increase in tax rates...
A Chou didn't really care.
She knew that it was because of her that her family no longer had the dream of becoming a rich and powerful woman. It was because of her that the family situation could no longer have a son to carry on the family line. It was because of her that her parents had been ridiculed by the neighbors.
But A Chou knows that she is lucky. Her parents still love her very much. Even though she is ugly and stupid, her parents will not blame her for all the misfortunes.
Even though her family was not well-off, she had what others had, and she still went to a good private school.
She thought she was not good enough and even felt inferior because she lived a better life than some better people.
Purpose: Don't have any illusions about unrealistic things