I want to have my own children, I want to have my own life. Everyone can only live once. Why should I sacrifice myself for my family just because I am a woman? In the past, I shouldered all the sufferings by myself. From now on, I will leave all the sufferings to you. In the face of suffering, we are equal. Without me, you will definitely be able to struggle and rise and fall, just like I have never been able to rely on you.
Purpose: You don't need to sacrifice yourself for your family and children, just let them struggle with you.