The emperor intended to propose marriage to Yan Yu, but she rejected all the proposals for various strange reasons, such as:
"He has been to a brothel and I'm afraid he's not clean."
"He is an only son and I am afraid that the old lady in his family will force me to have a son."
"He is all about his sister. I'm afraid that if I marry him, he will hold me to his sister's standards."
After being shunned in every possible way, the emperor and the queen mother angrily said, "Why don't you marry the young general of the Huan family in Lingbei? The only son of the family who has never been to a brothel and has a bad relationship with the family ran away from home and went to Lingbei to serve as a soldier. Your status is worthy of you."
Huan Qing, who heard the rumors in Lingbei, returned to Luodu with the news of Hayabusa's surrender. Before leaving, he said that starting a family would be too burdensome and he did not want to start a family.
Yan Yu: I don't want to get married. I want to be a widow for the rest of my life.
Huan Qing: What happened inside the house is making me bald. I don't want the back house to be guarded by me for the rest of my life.
Later...
Yan Yu: I'm afraid of pain, I don't want to have sex, I don't want to have children
Huan Qing: OK
Purpose: Marriage requires a sense of security