To put it bluntly, I am a person who doesn't like to join in the fun. Even if the "fun" comes to me, I usually find a way to avoid it.
It's a long story. One morning more than ten years ago, a small clearing in a lush green bamboo forest at a tourist attraction was crowded with about a hundred and dozens of tourists, men, women, old and young. They were looking forward to watching a performance that was said to be very exciting.
Concept: free groom