Her name is Yu Yue, and she was once called Yu Meng. He has an upper-middle-class appearance, looks better than ordinary people and ages slower than ordinary people. He is a little willful and selfish but is innocent at heart, staying in his childhood. A mother of two daughters, she has experienced two failed marriages. On the day her first husband died unexpectedly, she learned of his death and the story that her ex-husband had hidden. After experiencing pain and confusion, she met her second husband, but gradually learned that he had a bad temper, was narrow-minded and had violent tendencies. Being loved, deceived, hurt, insulted, so anxious, self-blaming, and in a desperate situation. Later, I finally realized in the sentence "You know very little, but this planet is so beautiful." I began to step out of the small family I had been holding onto and went into the wider world, making new friends, learning Buddhist knowledge, psychological knowledge, fitness, traveling, and cultivating myself and my mind. During this process, I gradually understood that only when I truly get better, my parents and daughters will also get better, my parents can truly feel relieved about me, and my daughters will finally get rid of their rebellion and seriously pursue their dreams. Yu Yue worked hard silently in her ordinary life, and at the same time she reorganized her view of love. It turns out that the best state is not to entangle, doubt, restrain, love and kill each other, but to let go, and then feel and love in the free air. No need to be deliberate, no need to be humble, and no need to put in any effort, everything is natural, just wait for the flowers to bloom. Finally, at the "old age" of early forties, I met the best love. That is, leave space for each other, neither be too close nor too distant, respect each other's life attitude and interests, feel at ease in love, and continue to get better in love.
Purpose: We all need to learn to grow from hurt, and then love better.