A girl, who has been obedient and sensible since she was a child, is a good child in the eyes of outsiders, and a waste in the eyes of her relatives. No one has ever cared about her.
A boy, who was born withdrawn, was a strange child in the eyes of outsiders and a big monster among children of the same age. No one ever wanted to know him.
But it was such a girl who, as she grew up, subtly changed the person she regarded as just pitiful and lonely.
A cold person traps a mature person. His unwillingness to let go seemed to outsiders like a prisoner and a deep pity for her. She fell voluntarily, which in the eyes of outsiders was helpless and an infinite condemnation of him.
Intention: Don't make random assumptions about others and their behavior.