If life is about struggling for redemption in the whirlpool of constantly calculating gains and losses, then perhaps we have all forgotten that we are ultimately nihilistic individuals. It has nothing to do with love or hate, and nothing else. As long as we can remember everything we carry and have, it is the best return gift to time.
Intention: Love may not always be beautiful, but I hope everyone can get the salvation of love. Learn to grow in love, and learn to accept loss in growth.