As the British educator Locke said: "When a person is born, he is like a blank slate." The blank slate is the content that has never been written. You, your parents, teachers, friends, and even your enemies will all draw exclusive colors for your white slate. In China, children's education may not be able to follow Rousseau's "following the laws of children's own development". There are too many attempts to encourage growth, too much dissatisfaction, too much lack of communication and understanding...
When children are in their rebellious period, they will always be asked: Why hasn't the rebellious period ended yet when you have grown so big? In fact, do parents really understand their children? They complain every day, telling their brothers why their children don't worry; they complain to their best friends: why their children have so many problems. But, as parents, you were once children. If children have it, maybe you have too. As parents, in order to establish authority and distance, you will deny it. When you blame, complain, and glare countless times, you forget that when you put in your efforts and energy for your children, your children also gave you their best years.
Second child is a fashionable topic. In many families with second child, some brothers and sisters or siblings are very different in age. In fact, that's right. In the eyes of parents, having both sons and daughters taking care of each other seems to have a family relationship that others cannot envy. The older one can help the family and take care of the younger one.
Motto: Sometimes responsibility is more terrifying than pressure