Male Protagonist: I lost my family, lost my beauty, ruined my kindness, wasted half my life, got married, and ended up with a ruthless king who did not care about the gods and Buddhas.
Heroine: Go to home and country, endure two opinions, cut off your youth, drift for a lifetime, under the bright moon and ditch, in the end, you only regret that life is ever-changing, and the world is at a loss.
If you want to know who is more miserable, the male protagonist or the female protagonist, please click here; life is not easy, the ending is he, feel free to eat O(∩_∩)O.
Purpose: What you ask for is unavailable, what you get is tasteless, and all living beings have their own sufferings.