Regarding what to do if a face-blind man always fails to recognize his husband: Shen Jue said: What else can I do? Just spoil her. After all, she is the wife she chose. "You are my Gillian, and I am willing to hide you in a golden house, but I am not Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, and you are not Chen Gillian. I will not abolish the queen, and you will be my queen for life." - Shen Jue
Intention: love, friendship