He held the wine bowl and laughed with others: "To me, she is like holding a candy bar before taking medicine. It is sweet at first, but gradually becomes bitter in the mouth."
When they meet, it is a matter of life and death. There is friendship to save lives, but there is also hatred to destroy the family. After decades of living in this world, going round and round, and falling into the quagmire, he still wants the one person who can hold him back.
No one is exempt from this matter of affection and love.