Reincarnation is no longer new. No one believes in past and present lives. I just use the identity of a third person to explain this love and hatred. Everything goes without saying, it's not that you are bad, it's just that there is only room for one person in everyone's heart. So if it's not yours, don't force it. It's yours, and I can't escape it the first time we meet. I believe that he (she) will appear in your life to accompany you throughout your life. Don't get it wrong, otherwise you will be doomed to a lifetime of misfortune. Is the probability of him showing up in your life the same as the probability of you discovering him?