Regarding love in college, Chu Sheng's point of view is: longing for it but not forcing it. The longing is because she believes in the beauty of love, and believes that love will make a person better. The reason why she does not force it is because Chu Sheng deeply knows what she wants. She wants independence and nobility in her spiritual world, and she wants a future that can satisfy her. And these, she believes, will not affect anything even without the addition of love, so she does not force it.
Chu Sheng has always felt that choosing to be responsible for the future and choose a real life is the choice that a calm, rational and mature person should make. Therefore, when love and the future conflict, she sticks to her original idea. She thought that her choice was not wrong, at least she would not regret it, but not regretting it did not mean that she would not regret it or be sad.
When his choice came to an end, Chu Sheng found that even if he got what he wanted, the result was not as satisfying as he imagined. The so-called ideal life that you create for yourself is just a self-righteous imagination.
What is reality? What is a satisfying life? Chu Sheng thought that it was just in the process of growing up that while sticking to the original intention, he learned to let nature take its course and accept the changes in life calmly.