I watched an American movie a few years ago. I can't remember the title. I only remember one of the lines. Two housewives talked about their cheating husbands. One said: When a man meets a beautiful woman, he won't think anymore. Another said: No, they think, just with their lower bodies.
"Thinking with the lower body" is an ironic definition that mature women place on the male group, the other half of the relationship between the sexes. It is a public label attached to them. The implication is that when men use their lower bodies to fall in love, they move from sex to love; while women do the opposite, from love to sex. No woman will immediately think of bed when she sees a man for the first time, but men will.
They did not deny this either. Taiwanese cultural celebrity and writer Li Ao once said that the so-called beauty is that after you see her, your whole body becomes weak except for one place. Women absolutely don't have this feeling. Therefore, it can be said that at the beginning of a relationship between men and women, women use their upper body to think and act.
From this point of view, the relationship between men and women is an eternal pair of contradictions. One reacts with the lower body, and the other thinks with the upper body; one is instinctive, the other is cultivation; one is biological, and the other is rational. The two sides have different frequencies, so they cannot resonate. But we know that in this world, love tragedies and comedies starring countless men and women are staged every day.