My father has taught me since I was a child that girls should be polite, gentle, and generous. They should be good girls who are loved by others. They should not get angry casually or scold others casually. Even if they are so angry that they vomit blood, they should endure it and work hard to maintain a good image and self-cultivation.
My mother has told me since I was a child that men love beauty. I am not beautiful and fragrant, so I know I am a human being if I am embarrassed. If I can't use my beautiful inside as a bargaining chip, then I will never be able to get married in my life.
My sister has told me since she was a child that if she doesn't have the same beauty as my mother, she must at least have the same chivalrous skills as my mother. If I don't have these two things, then I need to learn what gentleness is from an early age and carry it forward. For example, I can't talk back when she scolds me, I can't resist when I'm bullied by her, etc.
Even my brother told me that it would be impossible for me to become as handsome as him, but from his point of view, as long as I am obedient and obedient, life is still full of sunshine. Therefore, on my 6th birthday, he gave me a precious gift that was said to have been bought by him after traveling many places: "Three Obediences and Four Virtues".
Then, I started the first big battle in the history of my life with the man who gave me the book and euphemistically called him my brother. After being strongly suppressed by the whole family and protesting in vain, the next day, I received the second precious gift: "The Female Ring".