Is the Male Protagonist Considered a Scumbag?

Male Protagonist: I don't love her, I just see her as beautiful and cute, and I just want to marry her (arrogant face). As a man, what he should think about is to build a successful career, shine on the family lintel, and love his children all day long, which is not what a man does. Hostess: Haha, please don't go to my bed at night, and don't come near me at ordinary times. I can't disturb my husband's study, and I can't delay my husband's glory. Later, the author told the male protagonist that life is full of real fragrance scenes.