Ning'er, you must remember your identity. Every decision you make is related to the safety and survival of your tribe. You should bear in mind your own responsibilities and the burden on your shoulders. From the moment you are born, your life is not your own, but belongs to all tribesmen. This is what Di Ning's father said to her when she came of age.
Ning'er said, I have never lived for myself, but this time I want to be willful, just once
When everything is settled, is this willfulness wrong after all?